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The Hubster helping out in the Science department with an experiment |
Now is the time of year
parents start thinking about the next school year. Do we want to homeschool our
kids? Do we continue homeschooling?
We went through this same
process a couple years ago. At the time, I had our oldest who was turning five
in June, Mr. Mouse who just turned one in February and another little bundle
due in April. Was I crazy? How in the
world could I homeschool a Kindergartner with two babies in tow? In all
honesty, I was absolutely terrified!
But, I knew I had bathed
this decision in prayer and this…this
was what God had called me to do. I knew I needed to trust Him and allow Him to
guide me through this process.
I said I was terrified.
But, that’s only half the story. While I was terrified, that was simply whether
or not I would/could fit it all in during our already busy day. I was not, however, terrified about the actual
schooling itself. In fact, that excited me. I loved school growing up and I just knew my kids were going to love
it too.
HA! Unfortunately, my
oldest does not share my sentiments. In fact, we’re quite opposites when it
comes to school. To be honest, I had visions of BLISS! I just knew
homeschooling was going to be wonderful!! I was most nervous about teaching him
to read. And that was the easiest
thing I did!! He picked it up so quick. It was like a dream! Literally!!
I love paperwork…He loathes paperwork.
I love English, Grammar…He despises Spelling, Grammar.
I strongly dislike Math
(although I’m good at it)…He loves Math and numbers.
I loathe History…He eats up our History lessons.
I loved Handwriting in school…He
would rather have his teeth pulled out!
So, as you can imagine…our first year was quite the struggle. And, truth
be told…our second hasn’t been much
smoother. (Although, I have some new techniques I’m starting to implement, so
I’ll let you know how they go.) I have really
had to work at school with him. Now, I can already tell Mr. Mouse is going to
be an all-together different challenge and my oldest daughter is going to be
like her mother. She loves to color, write and learn.
In fact, as I write this
post, my oldest is sitting at the table working on his papers. Now these papers
should have taken him 30 minutes or less-literally. And now we’re going on 50
minutes!! I’m telling you…it’s like
pulling teeth!
I hope I am not alone in
this. Surely some of you out there also thought your homeschooling experience
was going to be quite different than it is! I have to be honest, it has been
taxing. I am exhausted on school days and I often wonder if I can, or even
should continue on. But, I know what the Lord has placed on my heart. I know I
am called to teach my children at home.
So, here are a few steps
I have taken and found to work when encountering one of those particularly
difficult school days.
- Start your schooling session with prayer. I
know we begin our days with prayer, but starting your schooling session
with prayer will re-focus not only you, but your kids. We often do our
Bible time at the beginning of our lessons to give us even more focus.
- Don’t be afraid to change it up a bit. If
your child is having difficulty learning fractions, ask them to help you
in the kitchen! If they’re having trouble with concentration, give them an
activity to do while you’re teaching. My son often stands at the table
while we read our Science or History lessons. Sometimes I find him
standing to do his Math papers too. This does seem to help, so my OCD self
has learned to let this be okay. (Hopefully my daughter will be the quiet
one…but that’s not looking
likely either! She has two older brothers for pete’s sake!)
- Let loose of your OCD ways and have FUN!! Science lessons and experiments should be FUN and EXCITING!! So, find something active
they can do to enhance the lesson. Take a nice nature walk outside and
collect leaves or name clouds. Or better yet…lie down with your kids on the driveway or
even your trampoline and make shapes out of the clouds!! I remember doing
that as a child and loving it! What a FUN and relaxing time you will have. Just throw
in some learning while you’re at it and you’re good!
- Don’t be afraid to get messy!! Okay, I’ll be
honest…this is my most difficult one! I don’t like
things to be messy. I love to be organized, although my house might
reflect otherwise. But, hey! I’m working on it! I find some of the cutest
and most adorable crafts on Pinterest for my preschoolers and I find
myself not doing them because it will get messy. SHAME ON ME!!!! Kids,
especially preschoolers, are so tactile that I am doing a dis-service to
my own children if I don’t take advantage of it during these most
impressionable times!
- Don’t be afraid to change curriculum-even in
the middle of the year! If the curriculum you loved for your 2nd grader is not working with their
learning style for some reason – Change it! I have been struggling with this
one in Math. The curriculum I use is really great, but I think he needs
more. I just can’t find what I think will work. So, I will continue to
pray for God to lead me to the right one. (P.S. I just hope its soon!)
- And, last…take a break! Don’t forget to take a day off every now and then.
And don’t be afraid to take an impromptu day off if you and/or your
child(ren) need it. We frequently visit the Zoo on nice days (we have a
membership…WOO HOO!!) and do our learning there. We find new
signs to read or print off a BINGO game to play while we’re there. It’s a
great way to have fun while learning and
spend time with the family.
These are not
scientifically proven facts, but simply my opinions and I have found they work pretty well for us.
Some days are definitely better than others, but learning how to defuse those
difficult days has helped tremendously.
What are some “de-fusing”
techniques you use at your house? Leave a tip in the comments below!! I would love to hear your tips and ideas!
Blessings,
Annette
